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Dating scammer Natalya ( from Russia


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Name: Natalya
Email address:
City: Kaltan, near Novokuznetsk
Region: Kemerovo, Siberia in Russia

She supposedly works in a quality control for a coal company, thus the email address :-)

A sample of her letters:

Hello xxx!

I dont know where to begin But I will try.
I do hope that we will continue to write and that we can get to know one another better..... Whats the weather like in your city? The fall is at its height in my town - the temperature varies from +1 to -2C, the air is clear and cold I like all four seasons. I enjoy swimming, sun-bathing and camping in summer.
In winter I often go skiing - actually I just like snow and the winter weather itself.
Its so beautiful when earth gets covered with white downy snow. I like cycling and walking in the park in spring and fall - Im a very sporty person.
Sports bring health and beauty. My favorite sports are volleyball, gymnastics, swimming, cycling and skiing. I do my best to live a healthy life - I dont smoke, reject drugs out of hand but I permit myself to have a glass of wine or champagne on very special occasions. Most of Russian men are keen on booze and drugs, though.
Probably, thats the reason why I can find a man whom I will really love. When people
get drunk they become real beasts - brutal and irritable. Im have very quiet and
counterbalanced character. I am very slow to anger and am rarely upset with anyone or anything. I believe life is too short for bad feelings. What kind of character do you have? What else can I tell you about myself? You already know that I work in the laboratory that controls the quality of coal. I had been studying
in an academy for 6 years to get my profession - and by now I have been working for my firm for 4 years. I work about Monday up to Friday. About 8 morning up to 19 evening.
Sometimes I to work on Saturday (Probably on this I have not enough time for entertainment).
I travel for my work much but I have never traveled outside of my own country.
In the near future, me probably will send in business trip to Finland. It will be big entertainment. I hope that you understand my English. I studied it when I was at school and academy. I can both write and speak English but I havent practiced for quite a long time. Tell me, do you understand everything that I want to say?

Probably it is interesting to you, who takes all my pictures.. My female friend and one of my colleagues are keen on art - they are the ones who get most of my pictures.

I with impatience shall wait your answer.

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2006-11-11, 19:50:47
anonymous from United States  
I would put my name in, but I don't want to tip them off like the DUMBASS

I was online last night and I was looking at some emails that were sent to me and the profile that was sent ot me that got me in this mess ( if u waant 2 call it that) was online last night. I tried to send her a message, but I got nothing in return...Maybe she was finding someone new or something like that...When I looked again today the profile was removed again...who knows..If I see it on again I will try to send it to this website
2006-11-11, 20:39:47
anonymous from United States  
The Boyfriend's Lament (Sung to the tune of 'Crazy Lyin Ho')

Here I sit broken hearted...
She scammed me good
and now we're parted
She said that we could really go far
she forgot to say it would cost me a car
2006-11-11, 20:52:06
anonymous from United States  
If you think that your savvy enough to pin these scammers by posting blogs on this site, you're the dumbass!!! Anyone and their grandmother can find this site on the internet. My dumbass did just that!!!
2006-11-12, 00:24:52
anonymous from United States  
TO: 'Elliott Ness' and 'DUMBASS'

I'm with Rob M. on this one. This site is really helping a lot of us who've been deceived by these women's emails. It can help prevent further damages (i.e., losing money and/or identity theft), but it cannot be some kind of secret 'trap' for these scammers to walk in to. We're all being naive if we think that their operations are that unsophisticated. Just continue posting in the spirit of helping each other get over becoming victims.
2006-11-12, 13:31:37 from United States  
This really sucks!!! No letters since the 6th..Now I understand why? Why would anyone do that? We might have gotten lucky and really screwed these people!
Guess its my fault for using my e mail address on here.
Im sure they are changing their stratagy as we speak! I now will have to beg her forgiveness!!!!!lol I will be in touch
2006-11-13, 00:43:50
anonymous from China  
hell i got you all beat i been on the SUCKER list for about 2 years, i was getting email from several russian (lol) at one time, one was even sending me a email and pic then one week later sending the sasame email to a friend, i found these women on RUSSIAN BRIDES BLACKLIST, dont know if its still there, one woman even ran out of pics so she sent another womans pictures and said she had dyed her hair.
2006-11-13, 00:53:38
anonymous from China  
go to russian brides blacklist there are some really creative ways to have fun with scammers, seem there are a ton of scammere out there
2006-11-13, 10:03:34
anonymous from United States  
This is hilarious. For some perverse reason, after receiving another canned email from her, I took the time to send her the letter below. I thought it would be interesting in view of the new movie out, Borak. lol

Me loves all kinds of tunes. Yo, weather is OK here---Word. Me love to have you visit sometime so you could show me your boobies and cooter. Does you have a big clit? Reason me ask is me went on a date with a chick and her when we got ready to do dirty deed, me look down and she have very large clit. Me couldn't tell if she were man or woman--maybe she be hermaphrodite.

Me know you would love the weather here---we could sun bathe and relax in the hot tub all day long. Me Willie be shriveled up if we did that so if we did, me might have to wait until me unshrivilled to give you shlong. Did I tell you my sister is a prostitute. Me is very proud of her--she is 4th best one in me city. Maybe you could get a job with me sister. Yo.

Does you have any more pics without anything on? Me want them so me can whack me julie while me look at them.

Please tell me when you can come visit.

2006-11-13, 10:51:15
anonymous from United States  
I started getting these emails too. My friend told me he had seen photos of her on porno sites, that's when I copied one of the photos and sent it in a reply email. Haven't heard from that dear, sweet, innocent girl yet.

Has anyone out there been getting responses from someone claiming to be Rebecca Swanson? She claims to be a model in Africa needing help to get back to the states. Looks like an internet scam to me. If anyone has gotten email or IM messages from this person, please email me at
2006-11-13, 13:26:28
anonymous from United States  
Here is the other picture she sent. She said it was taken in Egypt.
This image was also posted here:
Dating scammer Natalya ( from Russia

2006-11-13, 13:35:41
anonymous from United States  
OK everyone. It is email day for the scamers. I got another one from Natalya. I will post it when I have more time to do so. She even sent another phone number to call.
2006-11-13, 13:48:25 from United States  
Rest assured that if a woman is in AFRICA, is trapped, needs money to get home, etc., it is a scam - not even close to being a new one either - it is perpetually coming up.

BOTTOM LINE: If a woman asks you for money, foreign or domestic, assume that it is a scam. Why would you send money to a woman that you have never met anyway, right? Well, there's A SUCKER BORN EVERY MINUTE, but you don't need to be one. ;-)

Only suggestion that I have for you is to play the game with them. Send brief emails telling them how you think that you might be falling in love with them, too - then see what happens. Every time a woman tells you to send them money via Western Union or Moneygram, tell them that you will. Tell them it will be sent to them THE NEXT DAY, but not today. Then call Western Union or Moneygram and inform them that a scammer will be coming to collect money under the name of ___________, and tell them what city they are supposedly in, etc. By doing this it is possible that the money companies can help to catch the scammers. File a report also with the FBI:

By playing the game and making a few phone calls, filing reports, etc., some of these scammers can be stopped. The problem is that guys like you do silly things like sending back the PORN PICS and then they stop writing to you, immediately change their email address, etc., then the ones that don't CATCH THE FACT THAT IT IS A SCAM continue to be suckered in and nobody ever catches them. The SUCKERS that go all the way will suddenly have this one DAY where all collective suckers are sending the MONEYGRAMS or Western Unions, the scammers collect on thier payday and then disappear into the night, starting the scam all over again. Tipping off scammers to the fact that you know they are scammers only leads to more of a possibility that they WON'T GET CAUGHT!

You don't have to waste a lot of time playing the game. In fact, DON'T! When you get another lovely letter, just type back something like: 'Thanks baby! I love to read your emails! And your photos are so sexy! Throw in a brief sentence about what their last email was about. I wish I could write more to you, but I have to get back to work now! Write me soon. Love, _______.

That's what they do! Play their game! They write basically a flowery FORM LETTER, then toss in a sentence or two that makes it seem as if it is a personal letter to you, if they feel it is necessary to keep you hooked. Turn it around on them! Play the game, help to bust 'em! ;-) Keep copies of your 'FORM LETTERS' so you can reuse them, just like they do! lol

Hey, there are plenty of great women out there from many countries. Once you weed through the BS, you might find yourself a nice gal from Russia or other country to coorespond with or even meet if you so desire. Currently I have about a dozen here in my local area that I talk to, 3 women in Russia, 1 in Ukraine, 1 in Venezuela, etc. etc. etc. - the women that I talk to online, with email and/or chat and/or phone are all GREAT WOMEN, with their own professions, highly educated and none of them ask me for a dime. ;-) Eventually I'll pick some out and go visit them. Who knows? Might even marry one of them... as if one ex-wife isn't enough!!! lol

2006-11-13, 14:32:21
anonymous from United States  
still no word from Natalya! It was a devestating breakup..
Has anyone heard from ( shay farmer ) stuck in africa needing 800 dollars or liperinalady ( olga )???
2006-11-13, 14:35:37
anonymous from United States  
Wow, I got the same message as the rest of you. Here is what she sent me.

How was your day?
I checked my mail today – there was a letter from you. I was so happy.
I’m starting to wait for your letters with anticipation.
I often think about you. I don’t know why, but I want to receive your
letters so much.
I’m coming to my office. I’m checking my e-mail straight away.
I’m thinking about you and life gets a little easier.I get into a
better mood.
I think that we have some sort of invisible link between us which eyes
can’t see.
I hope that you feel the same. We’ve known each other for a pretty
short time.
However, I feel confident when I’m getting your letters.
I hope that you don’t blame me for being open-hearted. I used to go out
with one guy before.
Our relationship was monotonous and boring, though.
I couldn’t even bring myself to talking with him about my desires,
problems and dreams.
It looked like he couldn’t hear me at all. I thought that the way he
treated me was OK.
I thought that he wanted to have a girl with whom he would go to the club
or to a disco.
The rest didn’t matter to him. Our relationship was dying slowly.
Then we decided that we had been too far away from each other. That’s
how I was left alone.
Of course, many men were trying to enter into relations with me.
However, for some reason I didn’t want to let it all go on.
But you… You’ve touched something inside my soul. I don’t know how
to explain it.
I’m like a little girl that is waiting for a present.
I want to write to you. And get your letters.
I don’t know how come I got brave enough to say this to you. I might
sound stupid.
We are unfamiliar to each other.
However, I’m writing all these things to you.
It’s possible that you won’t approve my courage. However, I’m happy
I’ve said it to you.

I’m finishing my letter. For some reason, I’m too open today.
I will be waiting for your letter with anticipation.
I will be thinking about you.
In a picture my girlfriend Alma. She sits next to me. Other girl is
relative Alma.

P.S My phone number has changed. I had problems with old number.
You can call me on this number. With 6 P.M till 00.00.
On Finnish time. Call me in the working days.
2006-11-13, 14:35:52
anonymous from United States  
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