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I am Miss Marple and a contributor at this site, I have met many victims here at this site and I wanted to create an thread for those who are interested to find out how you recognize African male scammers. I met an scammer while ago, and he came from Nigeria and he tried to scam me, that’s why I created this thread so you can save some time and hopefully your Money by reading this general information I have written here.
I have made studies of African scammers in general and collected some stuff. I will represent here some basic information and some good advices what you can think about when you are out on the dating sites and online, which are the best ways to avoid scammers and learn how to spot them.

Are you an woman and have met the most wonderful, good looking and to good to be true man on the internet? He is also very smart, well educated, working probably as an constructor or engineer and travels a lot in his job, He tells you that he is an widower and has raised his child all alone, and he is now looking for true love. He falls in love very quickly and wants to marry you and wants to meet you soon. Suddenly he must travel to Africa. To Nigeria, Ghana, Ivory coast or another west African country for work and he will come back soon to meet you soon as possible. During his visit he gets in lot of trouble, he gets sick or have accidents. And he suddenly needs money, his credit card is not good enough or he’s has trouble to get his money from his account. Then he begins to ask for money.
Is this something you recognize?? You have probably met an scammer from Africa. Nigeria, Ghana and Ivory coast, Senegal and Dakar is the most common countries where scammers comes from, but they do operate with accomplices from European countries also as Germany, Holland and United Kingdom. Malaysia and China has also reported more scammers activities the latest time.
There is lot of different scams, Lottery scams, Charity scams, credit card scams and spams (Variation from the 419 scam)and other different types of scams, But this is page is only about ROMANCE SCAMMERS or DATING SCAMMERS

You can find scammers on every Dating site, Face book, and My space and many other different communities .Please read the profiles and look at the photographs, the photos are always stolen from agency models and sometimes from other victims as identity theft: the agency you can check is You can also search for photographs in picture search in database at this site and scamdigger where you upload an photo and see if the scammer is reported in another site If you think you have contact with an scammer by email, read these general warning signs


1.Scammers use templates before they starts to ask for money and there is variations in time in that also before they do that from 2 weeks until 2-3 years. Scammers use templates because they scam many people at the same time and have no time to write personal mails.
2.Look for the language, scammers has often very bad grammar and their skills in European language is bad, the templates are often translated by GOOGLE
3.They fell in love very quickly and talk about endless and undying LOVE
4.Avoiding your questions in the mails (typical for scammers who use templates) but variations do exist in this also.
5. Asking money from strangers is a scam, African, Russian, man,woman makes NO DIFFERENCE!
6.The scammer tells you to end your dating site account because you are the only true love for him (this is the way he can control the victim)
7.Scammers uses an +44 as an UK number to confuse victims with that they are in UK but they are in fact in Nigeria . ID Spoofing
8.If it sounds to good to be true it is often that also.

What can you do to protect yourself?

You must protect yourself even if it is not an scammer you are talking to. Never give out any personal information to somebody that you don’t know such your home address, telephone numbers no bank account/credit card numbers or other sensitive information as log in to your email addys or other accounts .Scammers asks for telephone numbers so they can convince people with their undying love as they asks for money, so don’t give out any phone numbers to foreigners. As scammers are criminal in the cyber world their knowledge in computers are very good .Get yourself an good Antivirus program to protect you from malware and spams, never click on links that unknown people sends you in mails, there could be an trojan waiting for you. As trojan is an malware and is created to steal and copy information from other computers.

How do scammers work out and how do you recognize them??

Maybe you are talking for the moment with an scammer but nothing is not what it appears to be as the wonderful man you talking to is an criminal sitting in a internet cafe and knows exactly what he is doing ,because he has done this so many times before that you can’t even imagine that your lovely man is only an criminal and wants to have your money, they are trained to be psychological and knows exactly what to talk and uses your weaknesses to get you into the trap. They send you gifts and talks poetry to you to get you really fall in love. And when you are enough in love then they starts to ask for money. They suddenly gets in to trouble and get into accidents and make up fake stories and involves other scammers also pretending to be doctors and lawyers or barristers that the story sound so real as possible, so that the victim feels empathy and open up the wallet to the scammer. They ask money for anything, from food to hospital bills, they can even send you fake documents that you have to sign your personal information that you suddenly can get involved in the crimes to without any knowledge of what you have really got involved into. As scammers are criminals they are involved in money laundry and drugs. They use most Western union to transfers to receive money from victims, but money gram is also more common now. Scammers uses stolen identities from other victims from another earlier scams or stolen from internet also. So the names they use to collect your money in are not their own names. So catch theses scammers are very difficult because of this.
The grammar is very bad as their skills are not good in English so they use templates translated by some translator and many time the scammers uses GOOGLE to translate their letters, so look for the language in the letters you receive from the scammers. Scammers uses much religion also in their scams they talk many times that they are GOD fearing and pretend to be very religious. often the scammers has children and they are widowers also, because in this way they can affect the victims in a emotionally way to the single mothers, everybody can be scammed but they often seek for single women with kids and in the age of 40, as people has generally made carrier and has an stabile economic situation as that attract scammers of course.

What can you do if you suspect you talking to an scammer?

If you suspect that the person you are talking to on the internet is an scammer, there is sites where you can seek for photographs, as I have put an link in the beginning of this information, but there is others you can do also, if you have contact with an scammer through email, you can look up the IP address, that the person uses and see if the person uses forged IP or has been reported to an scammer site. If the IP address is forged it is absolutely an scam, no real and honest person uses forged IP address, and if they begin to start talking about Africa that they are travelling to Nigeria or Ghana for business or work it is an scam also. Even if they have not asked for money yet it can be an scammers as well, as they can wait with that question a long time. Look for information on the internet what your love is doing and report scammers to sites because only by reporting scammers you reduce the scammers to operate and scam other people. Talk to other people about scamming and inform your friends who you also are talking to on the internet. If you have been scammed you must of course report this crime to the nearest authorities in your hometown and country. And here I have some links where you can find also information what you can do if you have been scammed, but I must put out an warning if you want to report scammers to authorities in Africa be careful who you are talking to, and also find out if it is real people you have contact with, as scammers abuses also this and goes under fake persons and scams people by saying the helping scammed people, there is a lot of fake detectives, so be careful who you are talking to and who you leave your personal information to.

And in this link you have more information of what you can do if you
are scammed.

Many thanks to DOC with the language/Translation,OJAS with good and informative links,and many thanks to and all other contributors and friends here at this site.

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2013-07-15, 18:20:36
anonymous from United States  
I just have a question... I have been having scammers contact me for years on the dating site I belong too. Do these men ever stop, or give up? Thank god I have never been one to send them money. When they ask me for money I always tell them it is the mans job to support me...LOL That usually makes them never email me again, but anyways. Do they ever give up or should I expect this to continue for ever?
2013-07-15, 19:26:33
Miss Marple from United States  
2013-07-15, 18:20:36
anonymous from United States

If they have not stopped contacting you this far they will probably continue to try to scam you ,even if you say NO,they do not care .There is always new scammers entering the dating sites and they are spamming everyone regardless age,interests,incomes ,religion,where ever the person might be living ,so if I were you I would start to check their profiles immediately before you give your email address so they can not enter your privacy and start asking for money .

There is no such thing for a scammer NOT to ask for money ,so to avoid these scenarios just ignore scammers completely when they are contacting you on the dating site ,I know it is easier said than done .But take a look on their profiles,what it actually says on their profiles that is my information to you and learn to see who has anything scamlish you will be able to avoid these crooks immidiatley so you do not need to waste your time and energy on these scammers.

And finally why not just change dating site??

2013-07-19, 00:37:06
anonymous from Australia  
Beware of Alexander Belland . He is a romance scammer. Luckily I checked his passport , which he has emailed me . It was NOT match on Australian Passports.
2013-07-19, 09:54:29
Miss Marple from United States  
yes scammers uses stolen passports that they photo shop and use them in scams,please post the passport along with emailaddress...if it is a Australian passport originally please send the copy of the passport to your local police also as it is stolen from someone ..
2013-07-19, 14:40:22
anonymous from United States  
I left entire address for Jones Bauers Corcoran the other day. Don't see it posted anywhere.
I also have the names of 3 other scammers.
First is: shawn, real name: Paul Ajugu or Aguju. Got me for $1000. He tried it again a few months ago.

Second is:, sent him nothing.
Third is:, goes by the name of John. He transferred money to my acct. I had it traced and sent back to rightful owner.

2013-07-20, 10:20:42
Miss Marple from United States  
2013-07-20, 10:23:14   (updated: 2013-07-20, 10:23:39)
Miss Marple from United States  
RE:2013-07-19, 14:40:22
anonymous from United States
photos on Focushawaii model Jeff used in scams:

2013-07-23, 04:05:07
DOC from United States  
Miss Marple.....

2013-07-29, 12:24:52 from Germany  
I'm just in contact with Alex Farber.
He needs after the 'accident' in fujairah urgently about € 30,000.

I have some very good pictures, a mail address and telephone-number.
2013-07-31, 20:48:51

2013-08-01, 12:18:25
anonymous from United Arab Emirates  
2013-08-02, 20:06:07
Miss Marple from United States  
RE;Alex Farber.
Guten tag Germany ,please post whatever your got on the scammer here as photos ,email address ,phone numbers used in the scam .

Dating scammer Alex Farber
2013-08-02, 20:08:14
Miss Marple from United States  
2013-07-31, 20:48:51

Post your information on this photo you posted here on this guy,full name ,email address,phone numbers( if given ) Photos are not enough evidence on anything ..
2013-08-03, 11:11:24
anonymous from United Arab Emirates  
I know him that guy. I know where he live here in Dubai. He is professional! He is not a scam!
2013-08-05, 19:20:56
Miss Marple from United States  
Three Pinays among 60 arrested in Malaysia for online love scam
June 25, 2013 8:47pm

At least three Filipinas were among 60 people arrested in Malaysia Monday for allegedly taking part in an Internet love scam, a Malaysian news site reported Tuesday.

Police taking part in 'Ops Tiong' raided an apartment complex in Kepong in Kuala Lumpur where the racket was being committed, Malaysia's New Straits Times reported.

During the three-hour raid that started 2 a.m., police also arrested 49 men and three women from Nigeria, three men from South Africa, a woman from Uganda, and a woman from Thailand.

Five tested positive for drug abuse, while 28 did not have travel documents when arrested, the report said.

The racket had been the subject of 332 Internet scam complaints from January to April, and had caused some RM51.3 million (P698.337 million) in losses this year.

It was also the subject of 967 complaints involving RM40.9 million (P556.764 million) last year.

Seized during the raid were 30 laptops and 68 cell phones.

Investigation showed the syndicate would court women through social media, and promise to give them expensive gifts.

But the syndicate would tell the victims the gifts had been seized at Customs, and that they needed money to release them.

'The victims will be coaxed into transferring money several times,' police said. — BM, GMA News
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